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Life of Blessing

Posted on June 16, 2016 by Daniel & April

Even though I know God knows what I need before I do, it still amazes me every time!

Those thoughts creep in of “what am I doing? Am I doing what I’m called to do? I’m not helping anyone am I?” Then I open my devotionals for the day and God shows me once again I’m doing alright and continue to strive to bless others.

So here’s another great devotional by Joyce Myers and I hope it blesses you as much as it blessed me.

Living a Life of Blessing 
I believe that one of the greatest opportunities we have as Christians is to make a profound difference in the lives of others. Throughout my life of ministry, God has given me the opportunity to help many people who need guidance. 

But I don’t believe this is a special opportunity that God made just for me. Everyone, you included, has the ability to influence someone. When you take the time to reach out to others and invest in someone’s life, you are impacting the world…yours and theirs. 

Galatians 6:10 tells us to “be mindful to be a blessing” to everyone God brings across our path. We are called to be a blessing and build up others in their faith, to not be afraid to reach out and to speak the truth in love. 

I don’t believe God wants us to be mere spectators in life. He wants us to be people who really love others and care enough to be willing to pour into their lives. We need to build up others in Jesus’ name so they can grow and reach even more people. 
Whether you know it or not, someone’s watching and looking up to you. People are influenced by the way you live and they need to see God’s love in your everyday actions. 

At times we’ll make mistakes, and when we do we can thank God for His forgiveness, but we also have to realize that many times we may be the only evidence of God some people see. 

Prayer Starter: God, every day there is another opportunity that You have given me to reach out, bless and influence someone else with Your love. I want to live a life of blessing toward others, showing them what it means to live a God-focused life.

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Just Say No

Posted on June 6, 2016 by Daniel & April

The simple phrase “just say no” can have such deep meaning and change your stress level dramatically. It seems so easy to say, but yet it’s hardly ever used when it’s highly called for. I know it’s a huge struggle for us personally. We want to be everywhere at all the family gatherings, kids sports, kids camps, volunteering at church, going out with friends, helping the PTA but at what cost to our sanity? Does it really put our family first if we are so stressed out about or during the activity that we can’t even enjoy it?

Read these wise words from one of my favorite authors, Joyce Myers:

When It’s OK To Say “No” 

In Numbers 11, Moses gives us an example of what we can do when we’re under stress. Talk about pressure, he was leading the Israelites through the wilderness on what should have been an eleven-day trip and instead ended up taking forty years! 
The people were depressed and weeping over their situation. In verse 14, Moses tells God, “I am not able to carry all these people alone, because the burden is too heavy for me.” 
Like Moses, it’s okay for us to say, “I’ve reached my limit.” Yes, scripture says, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Phil. 4:13 NKJV), but that’s really referring to times when we face various trials and situations that God will help us through. 
It doesn’t mean we should take on so many responsibilities that we completely burn out, like the woman who is raising five kids, works full-time, serves on the church board, etc.
Sometimes, it’s all just too much…and it’s okay to admit that. It’s also okay to say “no” to some things so you can really enjoy life the way God intended.
Here’s a newsflash: You and I don’t have to be like everyone else or keep up with anyone else. God created some people to handle large amounts of work, but many people aren’t made this way. 
Each of us needs to be who God created us to be, and we don’t have to apologize for it. We each need to individually find the balance of responsibility God has established for us to live in so we can enjoy our life, instead of making ourselves sick with an overload of stress and pressure. 
When you reach your limit, go to God, just like Moses did. He will help you find a saner, healthier lifestyle. 

Prayer Starter: God, sometimes it’s hard for me to slow down and say no to more responsibility. Help me to live with the balance of responsibility You created for me, so I can live with Your peace and enjoy life.

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Jump-Start Your Dreams

Posted on April 2, 2016 by Daniel & April

What is the dream that God’s placed in your heart?I’m not asking if you have one, I already know it’s there because God gives all of us dreams.

I’ve seen people do all kinds of things to their dreams. Some people bury them so deep in their hearts in order to protect them from the criticism of others. Some people set them out of sight so they don’t have to think about them anymore. And some people finally just give up on their dreams because it hurts too much to hold on.

If your dream needs a jump-start, there are two things I want you to remember. First, you need to get a vision that’s clear. And second, you must keep your vision in front of you at all times.

But having a vision doesn’t mean that it will instantly appear. God’s as interested in the process of vision as He is in the end result.

The apostle Paul said in Philippians 4:11-13 that he had learned how to be content and satisfied to the point where he was not disturbed by whatever state he was in. In other words, he never allowed himself to get upset with where he was at the moment, he was always looking forward to where he could be.

That means you, like Paul, need to find a balance between contentment and ambition. Here’s the key: Learn to enjoy where you are on the way to where you’re going.

When you have a dream or a vision, you have to keep it in front of you. If it helps, write it down. And remember, God will help you live the dream He’s given you, step-by-step, one day at a time.

Prayer Starter: Jesus, even though I don’t always feel like it and life tries to get me to quit, I believe You have a great plan for my life. I choose to trust You to help me live the dream You’ve given me more than I trust my circumstances.

(Joyce Meyer Devotion)

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Keep Your Face To The Sunshine

Posted on September 9, 2015 by Daniel & April

Face-The-SunShineSuppose you learned that Jesus Christ is the Light, and that in Him is no darkness. Suppose you wrapped your mind around that. It would bring sunshine into the darkest corners of your world.

John quoted Jesus as saying, “I am the light of the world . . . I have come as a light into the world, that whoever believes in Me should not abide in darkness” (John 9:5, 12:46). John later told us to walk in the light (1 John 1:7). That knowledge in our minds brings hope and joy to our souls.

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Live In The Sun Shine

Posted on September 6, 2015 by Daniel & April

Live-IN-SunShineSunshine in Your Mind
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In times of suffering, choose to walk in the light, to “cheer up” and “live in the sunshine.”

We mind our attitude by minding our thoughts, for as a person thinks in his heart, so is he (Proverbs 23:7). ❤️

“You will keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on You” (Isaiah 26:3). ☁️

Jeremiah faced cruel days, but deliberately turned his thoughts to God’s unfailing compassion and great faithfulness. “This I recall to mind,” he wrote, “therefore I have hope” (Lamentations 3:21-24).

In real life there may not always be actual sunshine but YOU can CHOOSE to never stop living in the light.

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Respect The Flag

Posted on July 1, 2015 by Daniel & April

FlagDisplay1fbpostSo many people today have a complete lack of respect for symbols of our nation.  It’s sad they don’t even understand the freedom that allows/tolerates their disrespectful speeches, rants, and actions. At one time, American’s took pride in the American flag and treated it with the respect it deserved. They were taught flag etiquette and they practiced it.
In today’s liberal culture, flag etiquette is no longer taught and many Americans no longer treat the flag with respect.

Well we can’t control our entire nation, but we can control what is taught in our homes. It’s our job to teach our kids how to respect our flag and why.

Respect is showing regard for the worth of something or someone. The flag of our country is more than a something. The flag is a symbol of our living country and itself is considered a living thing. When you show respect for the flag, you are showing respect for all it represents.

Dear Lord, Thank you for our wonderful country, the servicemen and women who have guaranteed our freedom, and the flag, which is a symbol of both our country and our freedom. May we always be respectful of our flag and remember that respecting our flag honors those who have sacrificed so much so that we can enjoy the freedoms of our country.

If you want to educate your family on respecting our flag here is the United States Flag Code:

Flag Etiquette

STANDARDS of RESPECT

The Flag Code, which formalizes and unifies the traditional ways in which we give respect to the flag, also contains specific instructions on how the flag is not to be used. They are:

The flag should never be dipped to any person or thing. It is flown upside down only as a distress signal.

The flag should not be used as a drapery, or for covering a speakers desk, draping a platform, or for any decoration in general. Bunting of blue, white and red stripes is available for these purposes.

The blue stripe of the bunting should be on the top.

The flag should never be used for any advertising purpose. It should not be embroidered, printed or otherwise impressed on such articles as cushions, handkerchiefs, napkins, boxes, or anything intended to be discarded after temporary use. Advertising signs should not be attached to the staff or halyard

The flag should not be used as part of a costume or athletic uniform, except that a flag patch may be used on the uniform of military personnel, fireman, policeman and members of patriotic organizations.

The flag should never have placed on it, or attached to it, any mark, insignia, letter, word, number, figure, or drawing of any kind.

The flag should never be used as a receptacle for receiving, holding, carrying, or delivering anything.

 

When the flag is lowered, no part of it should touch the ground or any other object; it should be received by waiting hands and arms. To store the flag it should be folded neatly and ceremoniously.

The flag should be cleaned and mended when necessary.

When a flag is so worn it is no longer fit to serve as a symbol of our country, it should be destroyed by burning in a dignified manner.

Note: Most American Legion Posts regularly conduct a dignified flag burning ceremony, often on Flag Day, June 14th. Many Cub Scout Packs, Boy Scout Troops, and Girl Scout Troops retire flags regularly as well. Contact your local American Legion Hall or Scout Troop to inquire about the availability of this service.

 

Displaying the Flag Outdoors

When the flag is displayed from a staff projecting from a window, balcony, or a building, the union should be at the peak of the staff unless the flag is at half staff.

When it is displayed from the same flagpole with another flag – of a state, community, society or Scout unit – the flag of the United States must always be at the top except that the church pennant may be flown above the flag during church services for Navy personnel when conducted by a Naval chaplain on a ship at sea.

When the flag is displayed over a street, it should be hung vertically, with the union to the north or east. If the flag is suspended over a sidewalk, the flag’s union should be farthest from the building.

When flown with flags of states, communities, or societies on separate flag poles which are of the same height and in a straight line, the flag of the United States is always placed in the position of honor – to its own right.
..The other flags may be smaller but none may be larger.
..No other flag ever should be placed above it.
..The flag of the United States is always the first flag raised and the last to be lowered.

When flown with the national banner of other countries, each flag must be displayed from a separate pole of the same height. Each flag should be the same size. They should be raised and lowered simultaneously. The flag of one nation may not be displayed above that of another nation.

 

Raising and Lowering the Flag

The flag should be raised briskly and lowered slowly and ceremoniously. Ordinarily it should be displayed only between sunrise and sunset. It should be illuminated if displayed at night.
The flag of the United States of America is saluted as it is hoisted and lowered. The salute is held until the flag is unsnapped from the halyard or through the last note of music, whichever is the longest.

Displaying the Flag Indoors

When on display, the flag is accorded the place of honor, always positioned to its own right. Place it to the right of the speaker or staging area or sanctuary. Other flags should be to the left.

The flag of the United States of America should be at the center and at the highest point of the group when a number of flags of states, localities, or societies are grouped for display.

When one flag is used with the flag of the United States of America and the staffs are crossed, the flag of the United States is placed on its own right with its staff in front of the other flag.

When displaying the flag against a wall, vertically or horizontally, the flag’s union (stars) should be at the top, to the flag’s own right, and to the observer’s left.

 

Parading and Saluting the Flag

When carried in a procession, the flag should be to the right of the marchers. When other flags are carried, the flag of the United States may be centered in front of the others or carried to their right. When the flag passes in a procession, or when it is hoisted or lowered, all should face the flag and salute.

 

The Salute

To salute, all persons come to attention. Those in uniform give the appropriate formal salute. Citizens not in uniform salute by placing their right hand over the heart and men with head cover should remove it and hold it to left shoulder, hand over the heart. Members of organizations in formation salute upon command of the person in charge.

 

The Pledge of Allegiance and National Anthem

The pledge of allegiance should be rendered by standing at attention, facing the flag, and saluting.
When the national anthem is played or sung, citizens should stand at attention and salute at the first note and hold the salute through the last note. The salute is directed to the flag, if displayed, otherwise to the music.

 

The Flag in Mourning

To place the flag at half staff, hoist it to the peak for an instant and lower it to a position half way between the top and bottom of the staff. The flag is to be raised again to the peak for a moment before it is lowered. On Memorial Day the flag is displayed at half staff until noon and at full staff from noon to sunset.

The flag is to be flown at half staff in mourning for designated, principal government leaders and upon presidential or gubernatorial order.

When used to cover a casket, the flag should be placed with the union at the head and over the left shoulder. It should not be lowered into the grave.

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What Happens When Satan Steals Your Motherhood

Posted on June 28, 2015 by Daniel & April

Satan MotherhoodIt is there, and it creeps up like a silent killer. Maybe it is the wet underwear that you found floating in the hallway bathroom. Or the cat food that has been flung out on the floor like tiny marbles waiting to trip up a passerby. Or the loud thumping and yelling and tantruming as if we live in some sort of primal age where roaring and beating your chest were the only way to get other’s attention.

And all of that madness and anger? It wasn’t the kids. It was me. The mother. The one who left a pair of Superman undies in a bathroom we rarely use for days, fed the cat without my glasses after someone else forgot, and the loud, obnoxious, downright scary human being I can be when I have just had more than I can handle.

That’s the kind of thing that happens when you allow satan to steal your motherhood.

No, it’s not the mistakes. It’s not the forgetfulness. It is what happens on the inside that no one else sees. And he knows just how to get to you.

He admires you, you know. But only when you yell at your kids, complain about tasks that need to be done regardless of how many people are in your home. He loves it when you wish you were the mom with the skinny jeans and tall boots and shiny hair with the perfectly groomed kids at the mall play area. You look at her and think you are sub-par. Satan loves that.

Satan also loves it when you get scared because someone posted a random video online of how their four year old can read, so you freak out that YOUR four year old is more interested in roaming outdoors and playing with bobby pins and giving them names, so you panic because books are the last thing on her mind. Satan is clapping now.

Satan also adores you when you get on the phone and ignore your kids, when you hide your true feelings and dreams and frustrations with your husband with a weak “I’m fine”, and when you feel like this fun birthday party at the park for your children isn’t “the best” compared to someone else’s insanely expensive Pinterest celebration.

Satan wants you to fail. And to feel alone. And to feel inadequate to what Someone Else has CALLED you to do.

Because I might as well have left the front door unlocked and allowed a thief to come right in my home yesterday. I mean, why not? I let satan in. After all the fussing and nagging and utter bone tired exhaustion, I crawled into bed with my three year old for a moment. Just to apologize.

“I am so sorry today was so rough”

“I didn’t think it was rough. I thought it was fun!”

“Really? Which part was fun?”

“The part where we played on the couch like we were on a boat. Where we ‘fished’ with your belt as a fishing line, and used the couch pillows for life boats”.

Tears started rolling down my cheeks.

“Please pray for me. That I can be a better Mommy”.

“Oh, I did! Earlier today. When it was sunny. Right before we played the boat game”.

Today I’m locking the door tight to whatever evil enters my heart and home.

Today I am going to remember the One who GIVES LIFE and knows I am a mess and LOVES ME ANYWAY.

I washed the undies. The cat took care of the food. That four year old is now six and can read like a champ. But she still names random things. And it’s cool that my hair is “shiny” because it is unwashed and I can’t wear tall boots because they make me taller than the guy that loves me to the moon and back.

Roll those cars down a ramp, read one more princess story, forget how “busy” you think you are and what the world thinks you should accomplish in a 24 hour period and for heaven’s sake, LOG OFF OF PINTEREST.

Take your kids and an old, worn blanket, reheat that coffee and hold them tight and just rest at the feet of Jesus for a moment.

Today? It is going to be okay. Take back your motherhood. It is a gift. Listen to the life-giver, NOT the liar.

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. {John 10:10}

This post originally appeared at Letters From The Nest

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Summer Of Fun

Posted on June 7, 2015 by Daniel & April

Check out these great themed weekend events for kids at Visalia First Assembly of God! Our kids love these weekends they beg us to make sure we are going on those dates. The Summer of FUN kicks off Today June 7th, 2015! Surf, Sand, & FlipFlop Fun the 2015 Summer of Fun has just begun. 

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TGIF

Posted on June 5, 2015 by Daniel & April

 T.G.I.F. usually stands for Thank God It’s Friday, but we also use it as Today God Is First. Everyday we strive to put God first in our lives, but we all face the challenge of becoming too busy and focused on putting the kids first. We use T.G.I.F. as a reminder that if we put God first we are also putting our kids first. When they witness us turning to God first in our days they are learning to do the same. When we put God first as a family we can accomplish so much more.

We have scheduled devotional time as a family, either early mornings or right before bed time. Sometime things happen after all we aren’t perfect people: “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” Romans 3:23 and we miss our devotional times or get caught up in what we think we HAVE to get done. That’s why T.G.I.F. is such an important reminder for us. No matter what we have going on we can always turn it around back to God.

As a couple we try to make sure on Fridays we take the time to do our own devotionals to refuel ourselves so we can better lead our family. After pouring so much into the kids all week long we can feel rather drained by the end of the week. Here’s a few of our favorite devotionals… We are a big fan of the YouVersion devotional plans because you can take them with you anywhere on your smart phone or tablet. We often find ourselves needing some encouragement during the day and it’s great to just be able to pull it up while your waiting to pick up or drop off the kids etc.

Women/Moms: Really love the CHOSEN devotional available on YouVersion – Check It Out Here

Men/Dads: Wonderful devotional that helps you in your day-to-day life to show your children what it truly means to be a role model and follower of Christ in every sense. Also available on YouVersion – Check It Out Here

Family/Kids: Courageous Kids devotional offered by YouVersion. This plan includes some kid-friendly videos of some Bible greats and takes us through their stories of courage while also exploring other verses and passages that challenge us to live with courage in our everyday walk with Christ. – Check It Out Here

God Is My Father devotional offered by YouVersion. Some kids know their earthly dad. Some don’t. But we can all get to know the best Dad…God, our heavenly Father! Read about God’s love, His promises, being adopted by Him, and how you can look like His kid! – Check It Out Here (This one was especially great for our family since we have adopted all of our kids. It’s perfect for anyone really because it reminds us we are all his children and where true fatherly love comes from.)

If you have some favorite Bible Devotional plans feel free to share them with us! Comment below or e-mail them to us via our contact page.

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